My most productive time was when my girlfriend lived with me for two years. I could just focus and didn't ever feel like I needed to leave. She was happy doing

My most productive time was when my girlfriend lived with me for two years. I could just focus and didn't ever feel like I needed to leave. She was happy doing house keeping and I was happy working. She left to go take classes and get a job (she's convinced she wants to do that before getting married.) I've watched her become unhappy, restless, and depressed the same way I have.