>Enjoy her company and observe yourself as much as you observe her. The more important question is: I have fallen for a woman who is not attracted to me and I w

>Enjoy her company and observe yourself as much as you observe her. The more important question is: I have fallen for a woman who is not attracted to me and I will settle for friends. What is going on inside me that makes that ok? Thank you, I greatly appreciate the clarity in this, very helpful to me. As to the quesiton -- I don't fully understand what's happening, and I suspect my mind is convincing me that there are too many hurdles for it to become anything more than friends…and that friends would be better than not.