I was SOOOO much more productive when I was single. Work-wise, I didn't have family or other obligations that required a schedule, so I could work longer hours

I was SOOOO much more productive when I was single. Work-wise, I didn't have family or other obligations that required a schedule, so I could work longer hours when I wanted to, or go in later when I didn't. At home, I could go to the gym later at night and not have to worry about missing "us" time or a kids bed time. Around the house, I could clean and organize and things would stay that way. Once I got married and had a kid, things get wrecked in hours, killing any of my motivation to do those things.