I really do not understand the question. I understand that plenty of people say "spirituality" and think that they mean the same thing as other people by it. So

I really do not understand the question. I understand that plenty of people say "spirituality" and think that they mean the same thing as other people by it. Some of them mean "whatever I or members of my family was getting from religion before, but not anymore because I no longer subscribe to an organized religion." I think I must have an attenuated sense of spirituality. Many people experience colors differently from others, some are even all the way achromatic. I don't feel like I am missing something. I'm sure there are those who think I am. Likewise, I am really bad at following a beat in music. Very often, I try to emulate following the beat with conscious thought, and that works poorly as you might imagine. Some music, I follow the beat just fine, but it is explicitly "dance" music, so someone is making the beat very obvious. In that case, I feel that I _am_ missing something.