This is painfully true. Half a year ago my family was discussing plans for Christmas and they offered to come visit me in Seattle. My shocked response was "..

This is painfully true. Half a year ago my family was discussing plans for Christmas and they offered to come visit me in Seattle. My shocked response was "...why the fuck would you want to do that?!", to which they sheepishly admitted they thought it was a bad idea too but thought it would be nice to offer. We ended up renting a nice lake house near Huntsville instead.