I often try to come up with "solutions" when dealing with my kids behavior problems. Like: if they aren't listening and want to stay up late, maybe I should get

I often try to come up with "solutions" when dealing with my kids behavior problems. Like: if they aren't listening and want to stay up late, maybe I should get smart bulbs that I can turn off with my phone. But I know that this is not actually a solution to the right problem. Your question has that same "smell". You need to find a way to discourage this behavior, not a workaround for it.