> we are forced to sell the house and both my brother and I have to forgo our share of the money so that he can survive The money from the house? Since your da

> we are forced to sell the house and both my brother and I have to forgo our share of the money so that he can survive The money from the house? Since your dad didn't save for retirement, there was never any money to share. If you meant that you're forgoing some of your current income so he can survive, that's a different issue.