I've seen a lot of sentiments like this article, where the author is talking about what methods they can use to make others behave the way they'd like. But I ra

I've seen a lot of sentiments like this article, where the author is talking about what methods they can use to make others behave the way they'd like. But I rarely see the opposite - an author talking about being receptive to others trying to change their own behavior. That seems to be a large part of the problem right there. As long as everyone is convinced that the problem is other people and not themselves, it's hard to see how things will improve.