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An interesting experience from last evening. Attending my most recent high school reunion, I mainly showed up to see a couple of old friends. Upon arrival, I
by jmspring 15y ago
An interesting experience from last evening. Attending my most recent high school reunion, I mainly showed up to see a couple of old friends. Upon arrival, I looked around and realized two things -- I didn't recognize most of the people there; and those that I did I didn't have an interest in chatting with.
Then, a funny thing happened, I realized a number of people were in the same boat, scratching their heads at who these people were. I had a couple of very good conversations with an Accenture Consultant who had travelled to some of the same countries as I have recently; as well as someone I did recognize but never spoke much with who has a startup doing pretty well in the mobile space.
My takeaway -- when thrown into a big group, especially one with certain baggage attached, it is best to just let go and take the time to chat. A simple hello, how are you, what do you do/what have you been up to, only takes a few minutes. In most cases, it might be considered a "waste of time" but there will be moments where something unexpected comes about.
Furthermore, if you are like me -- someone who tends to prefer the intimate/known to vast wilderness -- it might do you some good to branch out.
- genieyclo 15y agoCurious, why exactly do people attend high school reunions?
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- impendia 15y agoAs painful and awkward as high school was, there were a lot of really cool people in my high school, many of whom I didn't succeed in connecting with at the time.
- johnnyjustice 15y agoTo see old friends, that you may have lost touch with. And unfortunately to compare themselves with others. But fortunately, this could be a great opportunity to make new friends based on some commonality and sharing where they are in life.
- jmspring 15y agoJohnny has it right -- to reconnect with people you haven't seen in awhile. It provides a good venue to meet with multiple such people. In fact, I wasn't going to go until an old friend asked me to and a couple of other people I wanted to see were going. It doesn't hurt to get out and be social now and then, even if the overall group is not one you really care to see.