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> e.g. sworn brotherhood, which is the form that same-sex affectionate relationships usually take in traditional societies. I'm fascinated by what you mean her
by drewbug01 5y ago
> e.g. sworn brotherhood, which is the form that same-sex affectionate relationships usually take in traditional societies.
I'm fascinated by what you mean here.
> Since same sex marriage is not inherently sexual, what's wrong with just saying "my sworn life partner and legal spouse"?
There's nothing wrong, per se, with the phrasing you outlined. The problem is the double-standard: straight couples can talk about their marriages without fear of repercussion under this law, because heterosexual relationships are normalized and not seen as inherently sexual.
However, same-sex relationships are sexualized by default in the minds of many people, and mentioning their existence (regardless of the lingo!) is tantamount to "talking about sex" in the minds of the conservative, religious right.
There aren't any specific words that are being banned in this law, despite the "don't say gay" nomenclature the media and some others use. But it is a de-facto ban on acknowledging that LGBTQ+ people and/or relationships exist; the terminology used isn't actually the issue at hand.
- zozbot234 5y ago> The problem is the double-standard: straight couples can talk about their marriages without fear of repercussion under this law Well, straight couples were the first to get their affectionate relationships recognized and regulated under the law. They've been "normalized", as you say, for millennia. Same-sex marriage is still a very novel concept, only a few years old in the U.S. and most of the Western world. It's not surprising that people are confused by it. So, it's not surprising that same-sex people might have to clarify that they're talking about something (legal marriage) that is, functionally, entirely akin to sworn brotherhood.