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The catch is, you have to be really, really good at what you do in order to adopt this stance, otherwise it's just sheer overbearing arrogance. It is sheer ove
by sofal 18y ago
The catch is, you have to be really, really good at what you do in order to adopt this stance, otherwise it's just sheer overbearing arrogance.
It is sheer overbearing arrogance no matter how good you are at what you do.
Arrogance is not a characteristic reserved only for the less competent, and it is never a positive trait in even the most competent.
The only difference between a competent jerk and an incompetent jerk is that it may be worth your while to make an effort to look past the less-than-desirable qualities of the competent jerk in order to take advantage of the good advice he or she may have. This does not mean that competence excuses a jerk from the responsibility to learn how to not be a jerk.
I think what you may be trying to say is that it's reasonable to tolerate an arrogant jerk if their skills truly tip the scales in their favor. That's fine, but I'm saying that everyone, including the most skilled jerk, has something to gain from purging arrogance from their personality.
- thaumaturgy 18y agoI do agree with you actually; several years back, I was on one of the larger INTJ mailing lists, and I got into a, uh, er, heated discussion in which I was nearly alone in arguing that it was worthwhile for INTJ-types to tone down their abrasiveness and perceived arrogance. Interpersonal skills are always a great thing to have. It's just that, among those that are really, really good at what they do, they tend to adopt this attitude of arrogance, and like you say, the only time it should maybe be tolerated is if they're really that good.