I thought this for a long long time too. I have come to realize I was wrong. If we humans always prepare for the worse, then indeed we will always be terrifie

I thought this for a long long time too. I have come to realize I was wrong. If we humans always prepare for the worse, then indeed we will always be terrified. There is no way for us (I know for me) to decouple the nightmarish scenarios I ingested and prepared for, from my emotions. I want to be Spock [0], but I am not. I cannot be on the edge 24/7. I did that for decades (for work & life), it kills me and everyone around me. There is no way to enjoy this great world we live in. So, what do I do? I try to find a "good enough" preparedness for me personally, and my family. Where is that "good enough" for me? It is just a touch more than the average preparedness. I do not have a bomb shelter, but I do have a "breakdown box" in my vehicles; I do not have hidden caches of food, ammo, household needs, but I have a well stacked pantry; and, so on. [^0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spock https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spock