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I feel like the author is not highly aware of social norms, nor how they change depending on context, culture, and confidence. Many inexperienced users- the ki

by mabbo 5y ago

I feel like the author is not highly aware of social norms, nor how they change depending on context, culture, and confidence. Many inexperienced users- the kind who often need help the most- are coming from a place of low confidence. They don't even know if this is the right place to ask this question. They don't even know if they're asking the right question. That's the nature of being inexperienced. I'm glad they're cautious and trying to be polite! If you don't want to help such people, don't lurk in channels designed for helping people.

sigstoat 5y ago
> If you don't want to help such people, don't lurk in channels designed for helping people. and where do i go to not get these questions from senior engineers?
oxplot 5y ago
Re inexperienced users : you want to encourage them to learn and build confidence. Ignoring their "polite" ping-pong messaging isn't going to do them any good. Sure, don't be a jerk, but do mention "don't ask to ask - just ask" in a friendly way.