> It was supposed to be an anonymous donor. The donor was supposed to be anonymous, but not random. You don't know their name, but you do learn things about t

> It was supposed to be an anonymous donor. The donor was supposed to be anonymous, but not random. You don't know their name, but you do learn things about them, and you pick the donor because of those things you were told. And in many cases here, what the recipient was told, was a lie.