Fear "word" is generally negative. Even more negative when someone else puts it on someone and makes them miserable .. "If I can do, you can do too" is more ok-

Fear "word" is generally negative. Even more negative when someone else puts it on someone and makes them miserable .. "If I can do, you can do too" is more ok-ish (despite of slightly cliche) than "you should do this and that otherwise when you die you will die miserably)