> Looking at that second link, you have to wonder if they're not closet lesbians. They seem to complain about men not being girly enough... Or, gender itself i

> Looking at that second link, you have to wonder if they're not closet lesbians. They seem to complain about men not being girly enough... Or, gender itself is polarized beyond all reason. Men's idea of masculinity is not what women actually want -- men jockey for status among other men, and that isn't actually a recipe for success with women.