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The old fashioned term for this is “politeness”
by didericis 5y ago
The old fashioned term for this is “politeness”
- dogman144 5y agoAssuming we're using a shared definition of polite, I disagree! > having or showing behavior that is respectful and considerate of other people. You can be polite while not facilitating the counterparty in a way that's useful to you but in the short term feels like you're giving up something. People often can't get past that temporary feeling of losing so they don't venture into it.
- didericis 5y agoWas being a bit tongue in cheek, but yes, it depends on your definition of politeness. I’d argue that being genuinely polite, ie being genuinely respectful and considerate, involves the kind of self sacrifice you’re describing. But I also agree that when most people imagine politeness, they imagine what I’d call “superficial politeness”, not “genuine politeness”