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How do you define what a higher purpose is? Workaholics always think that they're doing something super important, no one would voluntarily invest there time i
by ivanhoe 5y ago
How do you define what a higher purpose is?
Workaholics always think that they're doing something super important, no one would voluntarily invest there time into something they feel is utterly useless.
What if one day they wake up with a realization that the purpose wasn't as "higher" as they've though it was? That they've missed other important stuff in their life? I've seen it happen to people around me...
- mjfl 5y agoDoing some kind of high impact medical research, exploring the cutting edge of science, political or intellectual revolutions, making a spaceship to Mars, etc... > hat if one day they wake up with a realization that the purpose wasn't as "higher" as they've though it was? Look if you are researching how to save lives, you are researching how to save lives..
- bennyelv 5y agoThen when you're on your death bed you realise that ultimately it was all futile, because no matter what you did or how successful you could have been at it: every life ends up at the same point you are at now. The point is, I don't think it's as simple as that.
- mjfl 5y agoI think that's incredibly cynical. It feels good to leave a mark on others lives.
- npteljes 5y agoWhat I think is that you need to be mindful to decide while it's happening. It might be satisfyingly important, or it might be meaningless, just very desirable. Really no objective way to measure it. Maybe someone helped a ton of people but let down those close to them, and they end up with regret.
- saiya-jin 5y agoI guess you don't have real field experience - its a super frustrating job. 10 years of efforts end up in bureaucratic quagmire, rewriting same stupid article/publication 10x. You may find out you spent all thaat time in direction which doesn't work. No, its often a properly shitty job, unfortunately. People in such field often, very explicitly, express to me how they regret going into it and how easy life I have it with my office job with tons of time for hobbies. No life, just locked in the labs. These are not anymore the days of Pasteur or Marie-Curie where fame comes to hard workers. You want rewarding job? Doctors. Teachers. But ask them and few are happy with the job. I'd say its a mindset thing - either you can be happy with little, or not and then its hard to not die with regrets. Personally, I've set my life and did all major decisions with primary aspect of 'not having regrets when dying'. It may or may not ultimately bring the result desired but it gives a clear, good direction in life which is enough for me.
- mjfl 5y ago> I guess you don't have real field experience You are mindbogglingly overconfident in your opinion and experience relative to my own.
- elteto 5y agoThe irony here is that in order to do any of the above things and to do them to the extent that you have a large impact on the world you have to sacrifice many, many other things in your life. You can't be a dedicated parent and slave away 80+ hours/week in a lab doing research. The day has 24 hours for everybody and you can't be world class with a 9-5pm.
- danrocks 5y ago> How do you define what a higher purpose is? Judging by my conversations with Silicon Valley hiring managers these days: selling more ads.