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How many girls have you asked out? It's a numbers game — you gotta encounter and proposition (not for sex, to be clear) as many women as possible both to learn
by exolymph 5y ago
How many girls have you asked out? It's a numbers game — you gotta encounter and proposition (not for sex, to be clear) as many women as possible both to learn the skills and to find the lady for you. Newbie salespeople are told to go get their first 100 rejections, and you're in the same position.
A good way to practice this is starting conversations with strangers in public. Say hi to people on the street. Smile at them. Make small-talk with the cashier. Get your social confidence stats up through trial and error — observe what works and what doesn't. Try various different openers.
- throwawayiay 5y agoYes I realize this. I realize it is a bit like programming. You do not try to figure out how everything is going to work from the get go. You just start hacking at it, until you get results. The issue I am now running into is, I'm really lacking in opportunities to even meet women. Engineering background and so on, just lots of men. The only place I found where I could meet women in a relaxed setting is at sport clubs, but even there, the opportunities are a bit limited.