I was late to the romance game myself. I think it all really comes down to confidence. You have to really like the person you are in order to be comfortable w

I was late to the romance game myself. I think it all really comes down to confidence. You have to really like the person you are in order to be comfortable with yourself. Once you obtain that it is like a switch is flipped and women pick up on it and you will be the one getting hit on. You also will no longer be upset if people are not into you, you will know your worth and understand that there are literally billions of options in this world for you. Also if you aren't very confident you are probably misinterpreting many signals that women are giving you both positive and negative. My advice is get any mental coaching/counseling that is required. Hire a strength coach and get your ass to the gym. Learn to be good with money. Once you are a healthy capable human being love will find you. You may also go the other way and become a playboy lol, which isn't really good for your soul if you really want to settle down.