Giving up and getting a job isn't "growing up", thinking that way does mean you have to grow up, or listen to the spouse around you saying that. You do have a v

Giving up and getting a job isn't "growing up", thinking that way does mean you have to grow up, or listen to the spouse around you saying that. You do have a very naive take on things, good on you for being vulnerable enough to admit it. Your attempt to build a "software business" by "building software that you hope turn into business" is laughable and the example you give is the punchline. You can't just identify problems, you have to identify the size of the problem, the market size and sales cycle. It is very likely you will find building stuff for other people to be very fulfilling.