>An exchange like this only increases toxicity - and, in fact, I think that “You” is the more toxic person in the exchange The person acting like a helpless ba

>An exchange like this only increases toxicity - and, in fact, I think that “You” is the more toxic person in the exchange The person acting like a helpless baby is clearly the more toxic person. This is someone if, they aren't spoonfed everything, will slow down the entire engineering team. Secondly, why is "coworker's" assumption that "you" isn't acting responsibly? You should start from there, if someone is going to treat me like a teenager, why am I the more toxic person for spoonfeeding them?