It is different than calling leering rape, but I see your point. I guess what I mean is, if you make good money you could get ahead. You could become financial

It is different than calling leering rape, but I see your point. I guess what I mean is, if you make good money you could get ahead. You could become financially independent, give your kids a leg up, build something that lasts, not have to kludge through another workday with no end in sight. But most people don't do this, most people are convinced that they haven't made it unless everyone sees that they've made it, and they keep themselves financially at the same level of security as a poor person with debt.