People are always going to have this feeling of "I can't believe Y was not as conscientious as I assume I would have been in X situation". It's hard to put ours

People are always going to have this feeling of "I can't believe Y was not as conscientious as I assume I would have been in X situation". It's hard to put ourselves in other people's shoes. I don't know what else is going on in this guy's life, except he's got kids so that's already a lot.