I find the fetishization of weakness and failure, the "syndromes" like the impostor's, difficult to relate to because I grew up (the contemporary times are over

I find the fetishization of weakness and failure, the "syndromes" like the impostor's, difficult to relate to because I grew up (the contemporary times are overall better than the olden times, to be clear) when the examples of virtue, at least in theory, were self-control in the face of adversity, believing you could do it, and moving on quickly when things did not work out. There are only a few things as refreshing nowadays as people who are comfortable even the situation is uncomfortable.