How can one be more like that person? Is it something inate, or something you develop? Some people here suggest that privilege helps and I agree, but is there

How can one be more like that person? Is it something inate, or something you develop? Some people here suggest that privilege helps and I agree, but is there something else? Is there a way to develop this trait? I think that the 99% Impossible podcast helped me look closer at certain things. I could also name a few YouTube channels. I certainly got a lot about film and literature from dating an art student.