> They're right, but they also lack the imagination that beyond the wreckage of "everything" (e.g. your former life) is a new life that could be better than the

> They're right, but they also lack the imagination that beyond the wreckage of "everything" (e.g. your former life) is a new life that could be better than the old. It's highly likely that they can imagine it, but realize that it might also be worse and decide that it's not worth the risk for them, since there is no going back.