I used to think like that, and would joke that my wife would get pushed under the bus if it meant saving the children. But while the children are absolutely pri

I used to think like that, and would joke that my wife would get pushed under the bus if it meant saving the children. But while the children are absolutely priceless to me, my wife and I together are the foundation for them. IMO, you have to make that relationship a priority (wherever possible) in the interest of your children for the developmental reasons you imply.