Up until ( if) I get married, I'll always be in a city. Just easier to meet people and do stuff. I haven't used an app in years ( had a very bad experience and

Up until ( if) I get married, I'll always be in a city. Just easier to meet people and do stuff. I haven't used an app in years ( had a very bad experience and I don't feel safe using them ), and aside from that I love going to concerts. Much easier to do if you can ride the train to one vs having to drive 2 hours Remote work is amazing, for me I have to filter myself very heavily at work. I don't really care for workplace socializing. We have bars for that. Remote work is amazing for people who have mobility issues, as well as an array of other disabilities. What if I want to socialize on my own terms. Forcing me back into the office so you can make small talk isn't fair. Have you considered Chicago ? It's the perfect city I'm terms of quality public transit and affordability. I lived on the Northside and never had any problems with crime. Met my first long term girlfriend too !