Heh, we were about the same. Add in that sweet tech oncall lifestyle for me and sleep deprivation was either not an issue or didn't change my personality basis

Heh, we were about the same. Add in that sweet tech oncall lifestyle for me and sleep deprivation was either not an issue or didn't change my personality basis so the stress was quite limited. The under one years were at a time in my career when I was working at 2am most nights anyway. A few minutes to hang out and take care of someone no love was a nice break. Mom slept pretty much through the night after the first couple of weeks. Decade and 1/2 in and I can't see things getting worse, but we'll see.