Poly checking in. It’s not about the sex necessarily, it’s more about being able to share yourself with multiple people. I have three people in my life that I

Poly checking in. It’s not about the sex necessarily, it’s more about being able to share yourself with multiple people. I have three people in my life that I share myself with: one person I absolutely adore and intend to marry, one I like but with whom the connection is purely physical, and one I dearly love and who is asexual and never have physical contact with. I have no problem sharing those people either as long as the expectations are correctly set. My SOs having sex with someone else is a non issue as long as they feel comfortable telling me about it (there is no lying or breach of trust). The classic question: is it cheating if you just kiss? If you just cuddle? If you just hug? What if it’s a hug with “more” intent behind it? The reality is, it’s cheating when there is breach of trust.