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What rules do you have in place about meeting other people in your community or seeing them multiple times? Is your partner not concerned that you might fall in

• PaulHoule 5y ago
  No rules. My partner and I don't think there is any problem (in terms of being able to do it, practical, moral, etc...) in loving more than one person at a time. There is a limit of how much time and energy that you have to pursue relationships, but if you have a 20 hour a week video game habit you have "time enough to love" a metamour. I have read a lot about it and also done a lot of introspection and found that being attracted or attached to another person doesn't diminish the love I have for my wife at all. It's not like there is a certain amount to go around but you can experience more. Call me a throwback to another place and another time but I have little interest in casual sex but I love that feeling of falling in love, that feeling when you catch eyes with somebody and the next thing you know they sing and invade your personal space and when I am not working on a relationship I am developing my ability to share these feelings with people and give them a really great time as well as patching them into a supportive social network that includes my family.
• graphpercolator 5y ago
  When I have done this the rule I got was from Tommy Lee and Pam Anderson back in the day. There is no multiple times. Just a one off hook up. Just sex. Multiple times would be a betrayal of trust. We only did it a few times but it was fun for sure.