Which all seems like a whole lot more complicated and incindiary compared to taking things to hand…but self-love isn’t as fulfilling. There was a comic, it had

Which all seems like a whole lot more complicated and incindiary compared to taking things to hand…but self-love isn’t as fulfilling. There was a comic, it had two therapists talking to each other, one said “So I suggested they investigate poly”, the other therapist said “Did that work?” And the first therapist said “Ha! Oh GOD no!” I’m paraphrasing, but I suspect in a lot of cases ‘looking outside the marriage’ sets things in motion I really don’t want to set in motion.