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Some people might appear unhappy when actually they are just comfortably set in an adversarial dynamic. Two of my grandparents would often seem to be arguing wi
by toyg 5y ago
Some people might appear unhappy when actually they are just comfortably set in an adversarial dynamic. Two of my grandparents would often seem to be arguing with raised voices when in public, being serious all the time, with all the classic corollary of old-school wife/husband remarks, but behind the scenes they were an absolute unit - they never had any affairs (unlike their own parents...), and after he passed away she immediately fell into a long depression, barely a year later she was gone too. They would rarely admit to others that they were happy, but in an anonymized "only God can see you" survey, they would have probably been honest enough to tick the very-happy boxes.
- watwut 5y ago> they never had any affairs (unlike their own parents...), and after he passed away she immediately fell into a long depression, barely a year later she was gone too To be honest, that is rather low bar for happy relationship. It think that maybe you should believe more what they said about their own happiness then project happiness onto them when no one is looking.
- toyg 5y agoI think maybe you should refrain from passing judgement on people you've never even met. The fucking internet, man, sometimes...