You may also still be too close to it to realize some things you will later figure out with introspection/hindsight/some things not being apparent as having bee

You may also still be too close to it to realize some things you will later figure out with introspection/hindsight/some things not being apparent as having been a good or bad idea until a later age. And if it's your first kids you are also likely to overgeneralize what worked for your kids to a generic advice that works for everyone.