For most of history having children wasn't much of a choice. It just happened and you dealt with it. Now we have the opportunity to think about it and choose.

For most of history having children wasn't much of a choice. It just happened and you dealt with it. Now we have the opportunity to think about it and choose. Having kids almost never makes sense though. You are never "ready". If you think about it much, you're much less likely to choose to do it.