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I found this to be quite accurate based on my experience, and I have written things very close to this to my personal contacts that are entering this phase. Th
by jl2718 5y ago
I found this to be quite accurate based on my experience, and I have written things very close to this to my personal contacts that are entering this phase.
The most important thing to internalize, is that the baby is crying for a reason, and your life will go a lot better if you figure out how to solve their problem immediately, rather than ignore or get upset about it yourself. I can’t tell you how many people have told me that that their babies cry all night, expecting to find common ground in the complaint.
And to add to both the tired cry, and the witching hour, I would say that the baby wants to sleep, but needs to ascertain safety/physical comfort first, which usually means being held, and some kind of movement.
Think about evolution. Humans are migratory. The greatest danger to a primordial infant is being left behind. The solution to this is to cry until someone picks them up and carries them along the path. This crying for attention has to be more advantageous than the obvious danger of alerting predators.
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- darkerside 5y agoHaving had multiple kids, I can tell you some babies cry for a reason, and some may have a reason but you can never figure it out.
- bitshiftfaced 5y agoOne thing I thought was interesting that came out of the AAP book, "Caring for your Baby and Young Child," was that sometimes babies cry to just to get energy out before getting to a more contented state. It's not always something that needs to be "fixed" right away. It also mentions, as do several other sleep books, that many babies need to cry as part of going to sleep (after the newborn phase).