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Counterpoint: we were open minded parents who wanted our kids to be familiar with technology, and found out years later, through therapy, that our 9 year old da

Counterpoint: we were open minded parents who wanted our kids to be familiar with technology, and found out years later, through therapy, that our 9 year old daughter had found murder porn (that they believed was real) and was mainlining that every night. Take their phones at night, at a minimum.

seniorivn 5y ago
there is a solution, distopian kind of surveillance, that is never used against child's interests(by child's definition) except very strict predefined set of rules, and there is an opportunity to give them a variable lesson: when they are old enough tell them about surveillance and how hard it was not to misuse it, about every case of your wrongful use of surveillance, and that this kind of technology cannot be used unless the powerful one loves the survailed one more than anything(which means it's unacceptable Ina general society) that's a bold idea that should not be used by overly emotional not well disciplined people