I don't think it is. To me the frustration stems from having to put in my time and effort into putting a piece of furniture together only to have it turn out no

I don't think it is. To me the frustration stems from having to put in my time and effort into putting a piece of furniture together only to have it turn out not quite as expected because of forces beyond my control such as sloppiness of the drill operator/machinery (holes drilled in wrong place anyone?).