I wanna argue that not hurting people's feelings is better for getting shit done. Because you cannot do things on your own. But I disagree with you more fundam

I wanna argue that not hurting people's feelings is better for getting shit done. Because you cannot do things on your own. But I disagree with you more fundamentally. Getting shit done together is a way to enjoy spending time, but in the end, the enjoyment is more important than the result. A job where you are successful but miserable is not worth it. So a job where you are successful by making others miserable isn't either, unless you are somehow special. That doesn't mean bend backwards trying to avoid any hurt feelings. It does mean putting in some effort to not be hurtful when avoidable.