The hardest part about this for me is that I often feel like that is the only time I will get to chime in. If I give myself time to think about it - whether it

The hardest part about this for me is that I often feel like that is the only time I will get to chime in. If I give myself time to think about it - whether it is important enough to discuss, and if so how to do so productively - the conversation will have moved on. The other party will take lack of objection as agreement, and I'll either forget about it until the concern becomes an actual problem (or nothing bad happens), or I'll constantly be that guy dragging up issues that were already "settled".