This is a good application of various behavior/personality type systems (DiSC, etc) to engineer profiles. In these systems there are personalities that will us

This is a good application of various behavior/personality type systems (DiSC, etc) to engineer profiles. In these systems there are personalities that will usually clash against one another unless one or both are aware of the problem, perhaps that is what the OP is experiencing and in that regard it’s not just a tech problem.