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I would agree with this. Your first goal absolutely has to be that you successfully complete your degree. I know a person who failed to do this, and the result
by FooBarBizBazz 5y ago
I would agree with this.
Your first goal absolutely has to be that you successfully complete your degree. I know a person who failed to do this, and the results are bad. Finish! However -- most people do. So if you're reasonably conscientious you'll be fine.
After that: Work to get an internship every semester you have off (maybe unless you're traveling abroad, as recommended next). You'll make some money; you'll try different things; you'll add to your resume.
I would strongly advise against heading off to do a startup immediately. You will be clueless and will not know that you are clueless. Almost nobody should be an entrepreneur. I'm not; you probably shouldn't be. But if you do think that's something you might do, even then -- work in the field first. People like to go "I'm my own boss", but that's a liability. Have some bosses who'll tell you what to do for a few years.
Also, consider some study-abroad, as others have suggested.
But my final piece of advice would be: Really value the people you meet there. There's a tendency to lose touch with people, to just move on with your life. A tendency to end relationships, to not solve the "two body problem". That's all a serious mistake. If by the end of college you've found someone you really like, marry them.
- MisterSandman 5y agoThis is a bit of a gut-punch to read, I just finished half of my degree, and have made virtually no friends. Obviously that is because of deeper social issues I have.
- FooBarBizBazz 5y agoDon't feel too bad. You're still young. I'd originally written a long post here, but it was a little too identifiable, so let me just suggest: 1. "Hi, I'm $NAME" goes a long way. 2. So does "hey, anybody want to grab lunch later?" 3. If you cook, "hey, I'm making $WHATEVER" is also a good one. 4. If possible, try a living situation with roommates. It won't solve everything, but it helps a little. 5. People in real life tend to be better than they are on the Internet.