I can see how it's polarizing especially since it feels like CRM for some. I'm, however, going to try this approach myself. Reason for that is that I'm all-or-

I can see how it's polarizing especially since it feels like CRM for some. I'm, however, going to try this approach myself. Reason for that is that I'm all-or-nothing kind of person. I can nag you daily and overshare but then if our roads split (different job, environment etc.) I forget to reach out - simply because what's off my eyes is off my mind. It's not like I don't care for people, sometimes I find myself thinking about some colleagues couple months later. I don't reach out though cause it would be weird and it feels like cold e-mail. Done this few time and people would drop some bomb (like, oh yeah, our life changed 180, why didn't you call?) which would - instead of keeping relation, chill it even further, as we both feel weird about not caring. That reminds me that my grandma didn't get a call from me for past month or so (sigh).