Well, that's my point. Putting someone in the "once a year" category means you're putting them in the path for that relationship to disappear without actually d

Well, that's my point. Putting someone in the "once a year" category means you're putting them in the path for that relationship to disappear without actually doing anything to try to fix it. Like you're in a car going towards a cliff, and you're not accelerating but you're not pressing the brake either.