> I am pointing this out because by understanding why people actually complain it will deepen empathy for the complaining person and also avoid creating a pseud

> I am pointing this out because by understanding why people actually complain it will deepen empathy for the complaining person and also avoid creating a pseudo classist framing of the situation which is actually not only inaccurate but harmful for understanding the people involved. You misinterpreted my original point and when I attempted to clarify you're now telling me what I'm "too focused on," as if I don't understand that all people have stress. So I'm finding this reply a bit ironic. Maybe it's supposed to be and I'm just not picking up on the bit. You ascribed some malice to my original post that wasn't there and are now doubling down. Why?