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Sir, is a bitter comment like this necessary?
by josefrichter 5y ago
Sir, is a bitter comment like this necessary?
- wccrawford 5y agoI was aiming for "helpful" to people who think they need hundreds of contacts and are looking to maintain actual relationships with them, and not just fulfill quotas. I am far from social, but it's pretty obvious to me that scheduling contacts with people is not normal and is likely to feel stilted, and not providing the desired result in the end.
- josefrichter 5y agoI beg to differ. There may be millions of reasons why you grew disconnected from someone. Don't you have situations where you think I wish I had more regular contact with this person, because he/she seemed like a genuine good egg? What's wrong with making the extra effort and actually create a reminder for yourself to at least say hi once in a while? And vice versa - would you feel bad getting contacted by someone whom you worked with years ago, just asking how you're doing, and not actually wanting anything from you?