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I trust you don't use a calendar to keep track of birthdays, otherwise people will try very hard not to talk to you.
by H8crilA 5y ago
I trust you don't use a calendar to keep track of birthdays, otherwise people will try very hard not to talk to you.
- MrYellowP 5y agoImplying that forgetting a date and forgetting a person are equivalent.
- deleted 5y ago[deleted]
- watwut 5y agoThe system is not solving the "I forgot this person exists" issue. It is solving the "nothing prompts me to contact this person without having reason to" issue.
- p_l 5y agoOr "nothing overcomes issues that say do not contact, you're not worth their time"
- thrav 5y agoWhen you have ADHD, things often only come to mind via triggers, and many people in the tech community have ADHD.
- camillomiller 5y ago
- p_l 5y agoI have read the article top to bottom... and yes, it's relatable, comparable, it leaves me with envy that I despite numerous attempts I haven't managed to build a reliable system like that and turn it into a habit. In no way do I feel it makes any of the connection cheap.