> Why freak out over calling someone by their old given name. It doesn’t seem like something that should have this level of shame attached to it. Because some

> Why freak out over calling someone by their old given name. It doesn’t seem like something that should have this level of shame attached to it. Because some people deadname people maliciously and so even if it was a mistake your action could be perceived as intentionally hurtful. People don't seem to maliciously use maiden names