This is actually the answer I came here looking for-- with some unexpected flavorful details! Sad to see it so far down in the thread. Letting go of whether I

This is actually the answer I came here looking for-- with some unexpected flavorful details! Sad to see it so far down in the thread. Letting go of whether I 'succeed at life' has been a difficult and ongoing process. I also think it's one of the most important and freeing personal psychological developments one can experience.